I recall an interesting read recently, a short article written by Bridget Menezes:  "Be a person of culture" ....
inter-alia "Culture relates to the practical side of a man's personality - something that provides significance.
It should show itself in the smallest detail of our conduct and personal behaviour .....be reflected in our
speech, the way we behave towards one another".

I consider these to be words of wisdom and I derive much benefit from her weekly series of articles.